Words of Fury
At times, we speak of words and do actions which we regret, especially when we are in a bad, foul mood. Most times, it is due to being pressured, compressed, stressed, upset and stuff like that.
To make amends, we in the end, have to apologise for our actions, take the first step in talking to the person, do stuff to show that you are apologetic. Is it all worth it in the first place? If only we have thought of our speech, actions and think through the consequences.
Why do I have this thinking suddenly? Well, I went through some mails which I think can be considered hate mails. Kenny Tan having hate mails? haha... why not man! I can't please everyone of my friends and I dun expect every single soul I know to like me and tolerate my flaws. Likewise, not every single person I've crossed paths with in my life dare I say that I tolerate them too.
Alright, to live life happily, try not to let the upset stuff bother you too much, learn from the lesson you have obtained from the experience and move on dude! Life is not just about that one, a few or even some, bad experiences and life does not stop there. Life is journey, a train ride, a bus ride even.
Whatever happens, I believe in myself, my ablities and mental strength to take me through. Like a phrase which I have read somewhere, though I cannot remember the source already, or is it someone who told me this. The phrase is, "Be prepared for the worst and hope for the best."
Why lei? It is cause, you do not need too much time to prepare for good things but one bad thing happens, it can drain and draw alot of your health, strength alot.
Okie, enough said.
To make amends, we in the end, have to apologise for our actions, take the first step in talking to the person, do stuff to show that you are apologetic. Is it all worth it in the first place? If only we have thought of our speech, actions and think through the consequences.
Why do I have this thinking suddenly? Well, I went through some mails which I think can be considered hate mails. Kenny Tan having hate mails? haha... why not man! I can't please everyone of my friends and I dun expect every single soul I know to like me and tolerate my flaws. Likewise, not every single person I've crossed paths with in my life dare I say that I tolerate them too.
Alright, to live life happily, try not to let the upset stuff bother you too much, learn from the lesson you have obtained from the experience and move on dude! Life is not just about that one, a few or even some, bad experiences and life does not stop there. Life is journey, a train ride, a bus ride even.
Whatever happens, I believe in myself, my ablities and mental strength to take me through. Like a phrase which I have read somewhere, though I cannot remember the source already, or is it someone who told me this. The phrase is, "Be prepared for the worst and hope for the best."
Why lei? It is cause, you do not need too much time to prepare for good things but one bad thing happens, it can drain and draw alot of your health, strength alot.
Okie, enough said.
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