Some Thoughts Just Struck Me
Last evening, as I was waiting for my friend to come over to meet me at Plaza Singapura, I walked around the shopping mall for a while. As I walked and window shopped, something just struck me.
Do humans marry cause of unselfish reason/s or do they actually marry for some personal selfish reason/s? To a lesser extent, do we be with the person in a relationship or do we want the person to be the ideal person we always have in mind and expect the person to be at our beck and call? Or is the person there to get fleeced off by one?
So many considerations to consider if you really want to be in a relationship even if all the ones listed above may sound French to you. Everthing needs careful consideration.
What is the point of heing in a relationship just for the "experience","status" or for the fun of being in one just to kill boredom? If these are the reasons, and I have numerous friends who are like there around me which till this day, it really baffles me, then I'd rather the person not play with the person who is serious in forming a proper relationship.
Why hurt someone and be hurt in the process as well? It is all very scary to see people I know being reduced to tears and losing all their self confidence.
Recently, I have been asked AGAIN by 2 female friends why I do not want to have a girlfriend. As per normal, I have now told those who asked me that as long as I do not have $2k nett per mth as take-home pay, no car, then there is no point for me to find one. Why burden and let another person suffer together with me when she can go and find a person better off financially to take care of her.
Everyone can give the same amount of love and even limitless love. It is the point of what you have as assets, in your bank that really differentiate you and the other guy.
Do humans marry cause of unselfish reason/s or do they actually marry for some personal selfish reason/s? To a lesser extent, do we be with the person in a relationship or do we want the person to be the ideal person we always have in mind and expect the person to be at our beck and call? Or is the person there to get fleeced off by one?
So many considerations to consider if you really want to be in a relationship even if all the ones listed above may sound French to you. Everthing needs careful consideration.
What is the point of heing in a relationship just for the "experience","status" or for the fun of being in one just to kill boredom? If these are the reasons, and I have numerous friends who are like there around me which till this day, it really baffles me, then I'd rather the person not play with the person who is serious in forming a proper relationship.
Why hurt someone and be hurt in the process as well? It is all very scary to see people I know being reduced to tears and losing all their self confidence.
Recently, I have been asked AGAIN by 2 female friends why I do not want to have a girlfriend. As per normal, I have now told those who asked me that as long as I do not have $2k nett per mth as take-home pay, no car, then there is no point for me to find one. Why burden and let another person suffer together with me when she can go and find a person better off financially to take care of her.
Everyone can give the same amount of love and even limitless love. It is the point of what you have as assets, in your bank that really differentiate you and the other guy.
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