Complicated Minds
There are times when we feel breathless and compelled to say out our utmost thoughts to someone but really, the point is not so much about saying it out to the receipent. The most powerful drawback question which will not be answered is: Are you able to cope with the answer if it is not what you hope for and how will you react to it in the aftermath.
Complicated minds is wat is really I do feel about the human mind. There is really no one who can really and dare to show who they truely are after teenage stage or maybe for some of the minority group, after childhood, for fear of their friends and social circle making fun of them.
To sound really awkward and funny, I might try here, in this post, to counter my own thoughts and yesterday's post. Sometimes, if we ask people differents questions but it is somewhat related to the same topic, no matter how close a friendship you have with the person, he/she will feel very uptight and bothered and to a point, pissed off with answering your question.
Maybe, just maybe, there is Asian way of behaving for an Asian man as there is an acceptable way for a white man to behave. Since ancient times, the Asian man is known to be a man of few words, not showing his emotions too much and having the calmness and composure which till now in my life, I am still trying to attain. The only thing which I have attained, in my own thinking, being able to stand up when the need arises and knowing when to pick my fights at the right time at the right place.
Guess since the post which I posted since 2005, there is still not much difference till now. As time goes by, I do hope I can get better and more matured with age and hopefully, one day, I can finally stop people from saying that I am somewhat childish or whatsoever.
Maybe my closest Malay friend, Imran, was right when he told me this line, "In every child, there is an adult and in every adult, there is a child." This line seems to be very hard for some people I know to comprehend but, for him and me, we both know what does this line means.
Okie, I shall leave this line as food for thought. Good day and wishing you all the best for the upcoming week.
Complicated minds is wat is really I do feel about the human mind. There is really no one who can really and dare to show who they truely are after teenage stage or maybe for some of the minority group, after childhood, for fear of their friends and social circle making fun of them.
To sound really awkward and funny, I might try here, in this post, to counter my own thoughts and yesterday's post. Sometimes, if we ask people differents questions but it is somewhat related to the same topic, no matter how close a friendship you have with the person, he/she will feel very uptight and bothered and to a point, pissed off with answering your question.
Maybe, just maybe, there is Asian way of behaving for an Asian man as there is an acceptable way for a white man to behave. Since ancient times, the Asian man is known to be a man of few words, not showing his emotions too much and having the calmness and composure which till now in my life, I am still trying to attain. The only thing which I have attained, in my own thinking, being able to stand up when the need arises and knowing when to pick my fights at the right time at the right place.
Guess since the post which I posted since 2005, there is still not much difference till now. As time goes by, I do hope I can get better and more matured with age and hopefully, one day, I can finally stop people from saying that I am somewhat childish or whatsoever.
Maybe my closest Malay friend, Imran, was right when he told me this line, "In every child, there is an adult and in every adult, there is a child." This line seems to be very hard for some people I know to comprehend but, for him and me, we both know what does this line means.
Okie, I shall leave this line as food for thought. Good day and wishing you all the best for the upcoming week.
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