Human Relationships
Human relationships aka the bonding between two different persons which is shared among only the both of them. Example is FRIENDSHIP.
Friendship: It is simple if there is no expectations of either or both parties on how the other person should behave and talk.
If we are going to complicate the simple bond, then this is where all the expectations will come in and more often than not, as humans, we tend to expect and want to change another person to suit our criteria and how we think is the right attitude and behaviour to conduct.
Is this really the point? Or should I say, is this really necessary? There are times which it is INDEED necessary such as when we see the friend who we know going wayward or is going to do things that will potentially harm and cause damage to himself or to public property.
Much as this is the desired outcome, at times, maybe make that all the time, we should really ask ourselves this question,"Is the person who I am going to give this advice in the correct frame of mind to accept whatever I am going to say next?''
Upon dishing out the advice, there is also the danger of saying it WRONGLY, using the wrong tone and the words. So, we also have to ask ourselves this question too,"What is the best words to use, the tone and, the behaviour we should adopt to allow him/her to fully receive our advice?"
All said and done, I shall not go on. Leave it to you, the reader, net surfer, to think. Food for thought.
Hope that this blog has provoked your brain juice and thinking cap somehow. Thanks!
Friendship: It is simple if there is no expectations of either or both parties on how the other person should behave and talk.
If we are going to complicate the simple bond, then this is where all the expectations will come in and more often than not, as humans, we tend to expect and want to change another person to suit our criteria and how we think is the right attitude and behaviour to conduct.
Is this really the point? Or should I say, is this really necessary? There are times which it is INDEED necessary such as when we see the friend who we know going wayward or is going to do things that will potentially harm and cause damage to himself or to public property.
Much as this is the desired outcome, at times, maybe make that all the time, we should really ask ourselves this question,"Is the person who I am going to give this advice in the correct frame of mind to accept whatever I am going to say next?''
Upon dishing out the advice, there is also the danger of saying it WRONGLY, using the wrong tone and the words. So, we also have to ask ourselves this question too,"What is the best words to use, the tone and, the behaviour we should adopt to allow him/her to fully receive our advice?"
All said and done, I shall not go on. Leave it to you, the reader, net surfer, to think. Food for thought.
Hope that this blog has provoked your brain juice and thinking cap somehow. Thanks!
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