Loner Lifestyle
Been working in the workforce for almost 2 yrs since I completed my National Service. At the beginning, things were looking rosy for me as I got to know many new colleagues and we all were on very good terms with each other.
As time passed, conflicts arised and there were huge disagreements which led to many unhappy moments with me and some of my fellow colleagues among ourselves with indirectly affected our work at times.
Nowadays, most times or almost daily, I feel like I am alone in the office cause those who I used to be close to are now on very good terms with another new guy colleague. All the efforts which I put in to build up the friendship seems to me like it has been flushed down the drain. So much for being sincere in helping each and everyone of them in the group.
Have been trying to regroup my thoughts and to get a counter strategy for this issue but to no avail cause I do not want to do any drastic or do things which goes against my conscience.
This has taught me a lesson in life. No matter how hard you try to build up and maintain a relationship, be it friendship or anything, if the other party just do not want to put in some effort maintain the relationship, it can all come to naught.
As time passed, conflicts arised and there were huge disagreements which led to many unhappy moments with me and some of my fellow colleagues among ourselves with indirectly affected our work at times.
Nowadays, most times or almost daily, I feel like I am alone in the office cause those who I used to be close to are now on very good terms with another new guy colleague. All the efforts which I put in to build up the friendship seems to me like it has been flushed down the drain. So much for being sincere in helping each and everyone of them in the group.
Have been trying to regroup my thoughts and to get a counter strategy for this issue but to no avail cause I do not want to do any drastic or do things which goes against my conscience.
This has taught me a lesson in life. No matter how hard you try to build up and maintain a relationship, be it friendship or anything, if the other party just do not want to put in some effort maintain the relationship, it can all come to naught.
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